TIME FOR A CHANGE

Someone once said “experience is a hard because it gives the test first, the lesson afterwards.” However, it can be difficult to figure out exactly what that test is. We are not going to go into the usual about taking up a hobby, going for a jog, or joining a self-improvement group. Changing our lives can be complex. But, the flow of life is onward and upward irrespective of our need for self adjustment. 

 

 

Having said the above, it is TIME to create a POSITIVE change in my life. If any of you need some advise on how to go about doing do, below are some good pointers. 

Get over it. Stop making life more complicated than it is. Everything happens for a reason, and when one door shuts, another one opens. Once we stop resisting life and live it, we will see dramatic changes take place. Learn your lesson, get over it, and move on. 

 

 

If you are dreaming of something bigger, it won’t come to you. You will have to go out there and get it. Sometimes, it will take much longer. But patience will pay off and you eventually will get it right. 

Good things come to those who do not give up, not to those who wait! Change requires action but those changes won’t usually happen overnight.  

 

 

Go on a diet. Many of us have tried various diets whether to lose weight or gain it. But those are not the types of diets we are referring to here. In order to make significant changes in your life you should try a “mental diet.” Get out all the clutter that’s been stuck in your brain for eons. That means releasing yourself from the negative thoughts that keep you from being the person you wish to be. 

Instead of wondering through life like an ungrateful tormentor always wanting more, maybe its time to appreciate what you already have. It may not seem like much, but making this type of change in your life will help you feel better about yourself, thereby, changing your outlook on life. 

Chill!! Today, it seems so difficult for people to simply relax. Beating the walls and making a big hoot about everything will only make you a nuisance, and no one will want to be around you. There’s a difference between hard work and working hard. If you have the “all or nothing” attitude, change it. 

Be less sensitive. Sometimes changing ourselves requires “seeing ourselves as others do.” Our own thoughts about ourselves are always the most important, but delusional musing is a great obstacle to change. 

Have a sense of humor. Nothing changes the heart and mind like a good laugh. Laughter creates an opening where tension and fear once closed the door. 

Show some Love. It’s easy to point the finger at others but love understands because we are not perfect ourselves. It changes you because you become more perceptive.  

You can probably think of a few other ideas that can result in changes in your life or someone else’s. All that is required is the desire to change.